Making friends with MONEY!
This morning, I noticed a lot of things coming up around money. My husband has recently been made redundant at work, so with bills piling up and receiving phone calls chasing money, I constantly felt like I was in a tunnel of no return with no way out. I finally realised what’s been keeping me from being financially free and I wanted to share this experience with my MummaBliss readers because you too can be financially free too.
Let’s start with a story….. because everyone loves a good story – including me!
When I was a child, my parents separated and divorced so my brother and I lived with my mum, who worked so hard as a single parent trying to make ends meet. She was working two jobs to support us and give us everything we needed so we could be happy. She sacrificed her own happiness for brother and I. She wouldn’t buy anything for herself it was always for us – new clothes, school excursions etc. I remember how wonderful my mum was and still is. I always remember my mum using the term ‘scrimping and saving’. My Dad didn’t give my mum much financial support as well, and she did it all on her own, however with a supportive family. My mum always did things for others, putting others first before herself. She is finally able to treat herself, and living more comfortably but still working very hard.
When I compare my mum’s experience with money, I have realised I have taken on that belief but adding a few more beliefs around it – ‘not having enough’ ‘scrimping’ ‘never getting on top of things’. My husband and I have always lived paycheck to paycheck. If you are familiar with the Law of Attraction, I now realise that I have manifested the experience of feeling in debt in my life. I put the negative thoughts and feelings towards money into the universe which vibrated the frequency and translated into that.
I am finally ready to let go of the illusion of money and remember it is energy. I am going to let go of the attachment to money and remember the saying ‘what goes around comes around’. Money always circulates back. Money is simply energy. I have the power to shift my awareness from a state of debt into abundance. I can only do this, no-one else can.
I don’t want to be rich I want to be financially free without the constant worry and fear around money. I have held onto this belief long enough so it is time to let it go. I surrender. I let go. I deserve good things. I deserve happiness. I am creating good feelings and thoughts around money so the universe can respond with what I want.
Wealth can mean different things to different people. I am wealthy in my relationships. I have a loving and supportive husband that allows me to follow my dreams; a beautiful son who loves me unconditionally; a loving family and of course a mother who will do anything to help; a secure job which gives me the money to live my dreams and many more. I am so grateful for everything in my life. Each person I have met in my life has taught me an important lesson about myself. It’s a continuous learning journey.
The moral of the story is…. I finally understand the obstacles. it’s just the thoughts and feelings around money. So, time to shift my awareness and change my thoughts and feelings around money if I want to create more abundance in my life.
My mum is an inspiration, what she did for my brother and I and I am so grateful. I love my mum, she has always been so supportive. She is an inspiration to me and I love her dearly.
In closing, have a think about what areas in your life do you feel suffering? Try to change your thoughts and feelings “change the channel to a more positive one” and shift your awareness to turn your life around – fix your relationships, finances, health, career and more with the Law of Attraction. If you want to know more about the Law of Attraction, I thoroughly recommend ‘The Secret’